What if the strength of a system depended less on its elements than on the relationships between them?
- Katalin

- Nov 30, 2025
- 1 min read

Promoting Humanity Series 5/6
What if the strength of a system depended less on its elements than on the relationships between them?
A systemic perspective
We often believe that the quality of a system depends above all on its individual elements. So we try to analyze each part separately, to optimize them one by one. Yet when we shift our perspective, something becomes clear. It is almost never the isolated element that truly matters, but the way it connects to the others.
From the brain to human dynamics
A single neuron produces nothing. Connect it to thousands of others, and a thought, an emotion, a decision emerges. A person may be talented, competent, well intentioned. But it is the relationship with others that reveals or constrains this potential. We see this dynamic everywhere. In a couple, in a family, in a team, in a company, in an entire society. At small and large scales, what truly shapes the whole is the quality of the relationships, not the sum of the parts.
The impact of interactions
Every time one element changes, the entire relational fabric reorganizes. Understanding a system means understanding its interactions and what they generate. And if we follow this logic all the way, we reach a simple conclusion. The one who has the greatest impact is not the one who controls the pieces of the puzzle, but the one who tends to the relationships between them.
Toward a leadership of connection
In other words, a leader is above all a cultivator of relationships.
